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A few racists on Facebook felt the need to share their opinion,...

Wed, 04 Apr 2012 20:08:09 -0400

A few racists on Facebook felt the need to share their opinion, reblog so future employers can find this post when searching their names in google.
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TRAVIS HALL

Works at United States Marine Corp
Studied at Wake Forest University
Lives in Norwood, North Carolina

OLIVIA NICOLE THOMAS

Went to West Stanley High School
Studied at Stanly Community College
Lives in Midland, North Carolina

Lynda Scott

Lives in North Carolina

Snezhanna Granados Black (what is her real name?

Went to West Stanly High
Lives in Midland, North Carolina

"I have thought to much, realized to much, found out to much, and I am to self aware to just stop..."

Wed, 28 Mar 2012 22:05:49 -0400

“I have thought to much, realized to much, found out to much, and I am to self aware to just stop what I am thinking and go back to society because what I do and think isn’t “right” or “morally accepted.NO, NO, NO. God fucking damn it NO! I will sooner die than betray my own thoughts.””

- Eric Harris (via wordswithoutfeeling)

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Tue, 13 Mar 2012 23:14:39 -0400

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taking-it-off: sexworkerproblems: tw: slut shame, sex worker...

Fri, 10 Feb 2012 16:25:30 -0500

taking-it-off:

sexworkerproblems:

tw: slut shame, sex worker shame, sex worker hatred and phobia, stereotype of “stupid woman as sex worker”. please be aware before reading and watching.

spoonyoyster:

Sasha Grey has a lot of guts.

And I don’t know how she does it sometimes. If you see just 1/100th of the press that’s done on her, you’ll see that most of it is her defending herself from journalists/moms/talking heads. And seeing this video makes me realize two things:

1. Whoopi Goldberg is the only one there that gets it.
2. As a culture we actively work to dehumanize and oppress people (mostly women) who work in the adult entertainment industry.

This is sexism against women in its most clever and deceptive form—one that is championed by women in supposed support of women. In other words, our culture has pitted women against each other and the net effect is that women continue to stay small in rigid stereotypes while sexism goes unchecked. It’s too hard to think that women and porn can peacefully co-exist. It’s too hard to think that there is the idea of choice in porn or that one can view porn as a host for many complicated issues (both good and bad).

This was an ambush on The View. Instead of talking about the real issue here (why are people so upset about Sasha reading to kids and what does this say about our society?) they made the issue a personal one (not in a good way) under the guise of being a moral one. They made it personal in several ways:

1. Sheri Shepherd, probably the least intelligent person to be a member of The View, asking how she’s going to explain to her son what a pornstar is. If you as a parent can’t create a sensitive and age-appropriate answer, you are unfit to be a parent. Any parent with any parenting ability should be able to explain what a dentist does, what a pornstar does, or what a police-officer does.

2. Barbara Walters questioning why Sasha would even want to do this in the first place? Why not? What’s wrong with volunteering for a local school? If you understand the simple concept that says: more affluent the area=the more parental involvement and volunteering where the less affluent the area=the less parental involvement and volunteering, you should thank her for wanting to donate her time. What’s more upsetting is that the question suggests that someone like her shouldn’t want to volunteer. It’s much easier to stereotype a pornstar or former pornstar as some vapid, wretch of a person with no sense of community or moral compass. But if you’re a good parent or a good educator, you show your kids honesty and integrity. You don’t have to play a DVD of Sasha Grey’s adult films but you can (if it comes up) have a conversation that is fitting: “Sasha is a TV actress but she’s also acted in adult movies where you have to be 18 or sometimes 21 and older to watch. These movies are for adults only.” What’s an adult movie? A kid might ask. “An adult movie is a movie made for adults by adults. You know how there are cartoons and shows where it’s for kids and adults really don’t watch those? There are adult movies where some adults watch those and kids don’t watch those.” It’s not that hard and that took all of 2 minutes to think of.

3. Barbara saying that “being a pornstar isn’t something you hope your children aspire to be.” Sasha wasn’t forced into sex-trafficking at the age of 5. That’s something you don’t hope for your children. Someone choosing to be an adult entertainer is, to make this exhausted argument again, a choice. A lot of parents don’t want their kids to be in the military fighting a war that they don’t believe in or is possibly breaking international law. If a school wanted to have a soldier come in to read to the kids, what’s the harm? They’re not there to talk about covert operations in Kabul or the overspending of the military or the killing of innocent Iraqi civilians. The point of having people of all walks come in to read is to show that everyone loves to read. Reading is important. No matter what job you have, you will read. As the NBA used to say, “Reading is Fundamental.”

4. Whoopi shares a personal story about being a child growing up next to pornstars. This is perhaps the only sane moment in the interview because instead of heaping on women who do porn=evil garbage, she made it personal. Whoopi is saying these people are people. What a concept.

5. And finally, Barbara chiming in as the old grandmother asking “what’s a nice girl like you doing in a place like that?” Before this, she questions why Sasha even entered the business if she believes in education and likes working with kid. I can’t believe this came out of Barbara’s mouth. We’re talking about a woman who pioneered the news industry for women. This question isn’t really a question. It’s more of a setup to try and get Sasha to break down and repent for all of her supposed faults. Actually, the entire interview has this tone. It’s difficult for society to accept that a woman might be in the industry and simultaneously be a good, clear thinking person. It’s easier to demonize someone and say that, eventually, they’ll wake up and realize how wrong their actions were. It’s a bully tactic that is based on the oppression of women: you don’t know what you were doing and you don’t have a mind of your own. It’s like an episode of Mad Men all over again. It just looks like it’s not oppression because it’s women doing it. It’s obvious that Barbara and co. don’t like the porn industry (that’s fine, not everyone has to) but their attitude informs their criticism of Sasha. You can criticize the industry, fine. But when you fail to see the person, the woman, behind it what you really do is create distance and isolation between people. Like Whoopi said, she lived next to and got to know pornstars when she was a kid. When you do that and have actual conversations with them, then you can create closeness and understanding.

Sasha has a lot of guts. It’s just unfortunate that one has to have so much guts and take so much shit to be truly heard as a person.

Pretty sure all of the above summed up alllll of it.

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"Do whatever the fuck you want because you only live once and if I die tomorrow, I wanna die happy. I..."

Fri, 10 Feb 2012 16:24:13 -0500

“Do whatever the fuck you want because you only live once and if I die tomorrow, I wanna die happy. I don’t wanna wish I did something, I do it every day. I’m me and no one is gonna tell me I shouldn’t do this or that.. and this goes for everyone. It doesn’t matter if your family or friends dont truely understand you. You have to be happy. Because, who else matters in the end?”

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I hate being alone. I hate not having friends and I hate not going...

Thu, 29 Dec 2011 22:48:00 -0500

I hate being alone. I hate not having friends and I hate not going...:

blondebombshellxoxo:

I hate being alone. I hate not having friends and I hate not going out. But at the same time, I get to a point where I feel like I should cut everyone off myself because I don’t want to end up being neglected or let down or forgotten or replaced on their terms.

Sometimes I do it on purpose,…

"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they’re busy..."

Thu, 29 Dec 2011 07:20:14 -0500

“So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’re chasing the wrong things.”

- Morrie Schwartz (via quote-book)

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Thu, 29 Dec 2011 07:06:20 -0500

Just a little tip in no way is this ment in a rude way at all. But alot of people will not follow you back because you don't have an icon. If you don't want it to be a pic of you then chose another one. Once we had a spam thing were all un iconed tumblrs were spam and to not follow back <3 I love your blog xxxxxxxxxxx

Wed, 28 Dec 2011 04:01:41 -0500

Honestly, I don’t care about the amount of followers I get/have. I just have this blog to follow other people. But I will look for an icon pic soon anyways! And really? I never post anything hardly. :/ But thanks.

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"Even people I’ve known for so long soon become strangers to me. People change and grow tired of..."

Sun, 11 Dec 2011 03:21:10 -0500

““Even people I’ve known for so long soon become strangers to me. People change and grow tired of having you in their life. I’m my own best friend. It’s sad, but it is what it is.””

- Megan Fox (via emptyheartedinhibitions)

thepinkqueen: Christmas giveaway! Cute little presents for one...

Sun, 11 Dec 2011 00:29:04 -0500

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